Our World Today

We live in a world
where everything is filtered.

Smiles on our faces
cover the dark sadness within us.

No one wants to talk about it,
no one opens up for the fear of being judged.

Our generation has become cold-hearted
only 5% of the population is genuinely good

Everyone is fake, no one wants to show they care
it seems like everyone wants to go with the flow and not care at all.
Not caring has become the norm in our society

Because if we show we care,
all of a sudden we are labeled "clingy" or "annoying."

If we love too much, we are called "obsessed."
If we worry for others all the time, we are known as "paranoid."

The definition of "normal" has deteriorated
and sadly, in a world like this, "cold" and" heartless" are the two traits that everyone learns to possess.

This is the sad reality of our generation today
We have become so lost and broken

And what's worse is that
the happy people are looked down upon
The ones who love and care more, are advised to love and expect less from others.
They are told to toughen up.
They are told that the world is not a happy place anymore so there is no reason to smile or get their hopes up.

Having a true, loving heart is now an accomplishment
when it's supposed to be general

Our world has lost the genuinely loving people
and we continue to break apart as our lives become filled with fake sources of joy and fake people

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Trump’s Muslim Ban Brings Back Love and Unity

Back in December 2015, candidate Donald Trump called for a “total and complete shutdown of Muslims” from entering the United States of America.

Now, January 2017, President Donald Trump has officially banned 7 Muslim majority countries (Syria, Iraq, Iran, Sudan, Somalia, Libya, and Yemen) from entering the United States. People all over the world are in shock. Did he seriously stick to his word? He actually banned Muslims from entering the United States?

Every time I check the news or go on Facebook, all I see is “Trump’s Muslim Ban,” “Protestors at JFK Airport,” “Refugees,” “Deportation,” “#NoBanNoWall.”

Now when reading the title of this article, you might be a little shocked. Like how on earth is this ban bringing back love?? Just look at the positive spin on this heated topic.

As Trump tries to ban more and more Muslims, people across America become more aware of Muslims. Think about it. This hidden discrimination toward Muslims is no longer secret. The problem has been identified. We have been working so hard to not voice this problem. We have been ignoring this issue for too long.

As Muslims, we secretly suffered from hidden racism, a problem that no one actually took into consideration. It was like “oh it’s just a tiny flaw this country has” but when Trump actually openly and directly targets Muslims, and when we see the number of hate crimes occurring recently, it makes everyone realize, “hey, this is an actual problem that needs some fixing” or “wow I never knew people could be so cruel and heartless.”

You can never get cured without first admitting that you have an illness. Likewise, you cannot expect positive changes or a solution without understanding that there is a problem. 

For so many years, this hidden disease of racism was never spoken aloud. It was just harbored in the hearts of ignorant Americans.

But not anymore, because we are finally getting the attention we need,

We are the discussion, we are the topic, we are now the news of America. And, we are receiving support and sympathy from so many. We are coming back to our Muslim identity and working within our Muslim community.

“Haters make you famous” Trump has put so much attention on Muslims that people have actually converted to Islam when trying to learn about what Islam actually teaches. This campaign and election has opened the eyes of many ignorant Americans.

Through Trump’s ban, we can differentiate the genuinely generous from the hypocrites. We can finally see who has our back when things go wrong. We have discovered who our true friends are and we now know who we can count on.

Once again, people are actually searching for the true meaning of democracy. People are coming to understand the immense power of unity and working hard to strive for a change.

The true definition of democracy is being revived and we are renewing the basic rights of humanity. Protests, boycotts, speeches, all these small democratic actions can lead to a bigger change.

Think about all the people that have stick up for us through this process. Let’s just look at some facts and statistics from the past few days:

·         Protests broke out across the country in response to President Trump's refugee and travel ban

·         Prime Minister Trudeau reacted to Trump’s ban of Muslims by tweeting: “To those fleeing persecution, terror & war, Canadians will welcome you, regardless of your faith. Diversity is our strength #WelcomeToCanada.”

·         “Sen. Bernie Sanders on Saturday accused President Trump of "fostering hatred" with his executive order barring people from certain Muslim-majority countries from entering the U.S.”

·         Trevor Noah-“We need to stand in solidarity with Muslim people who are being targeted by Donald Trump, if they start registering Muslims in America, we all register as Muslims.”

·         “New York Mayor Bill de Blasio condemns Donald Trump's Muslim ban as 'un-American'

·         Even Pope Francis, a Christian pope, has rebuked Christians who support the Muslim ban. “Addressing a gathering of a pilgrimage of Catholics and Lutherans from Germany on Saturday, Pope Francis condemned the hypocrisy from Christians who are merciless to refugees and people of other faiths,”

People are trying to support Muslims as much as they can. People are turning back to love to end this discrimination. Celebrities, famous figures, mayors, policemen, senators, judges, activists, SO MANY PEOPLE ARE OUTRAGED. Protestors have been protesting with signs standing in the cold for hours.  Activists are working hard every day to bring back equality.

With all the worries and stress going on amongst the Muslim community right now, I want to bring out the positive side of this whole topic. And I wanted people realize how much effort is being put into these long protests and hard work to fight for democracy and freedom.

Although people are in fear of what can come next, these executive orders and actions are bringing America back to love, unity, and true democracy.

 

Look Beyond...

There isn't a dead end

in our road of imagination

There isn't a stop sign
to the street of boundless possibilities...

and there is no boundary

to our strengths and capabilities.

Yet, we still fail to comprehend

the capacity of our abilities,

the exceeding intellect of our minds,

and the wonders of this world

we still have yet to find.

through struggles and agony,

through the darkness of this life

we can find ways to strive towards a successful destiny.

Using our eyes as cameras

to capture every single moment,

using our minds as compasses

to navigate our way through life,

and using our hearts as guides

we can look beyond the negativity in this world.

Ambitions and motivation are tools needed

to make the future as bright as possible

to make our dreams a reality
and bring back love and tranquility.

It's about using optimism to fight negativity
and using memories to fight hardships

It's about looking beyond struggles
and fighting out negative emotions

Because only then, we will be able to make our goals become a reality
and get through this journey called "life."

~Waresa


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A Message To Your Ingenuity, by Waresa

You're not faulty or crude 
it's what you perceive yourself to be,
you're not oblivious  or confused
you don't need to be what the world wants to see  
 
You're naturally ornate 
beautiful at every state

You're luminous from within
just put trust in yourself
you just need to give yourself the chance to shine 
everything will be fine

just continue to glow and illuminate 
work towards your destiny and fate


and throughout this journey 
release your vivid reality 
and your true ingenuity. 

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Not a Care in the World, by Waresa

To see you coming, esoterically
in an inquisitive way

Standing tall and straight
complacent,
not a single worry or care,
a piece of feeling I'd love to share

To see how free and painless
this life can be
to see how you ignore
your endless miseries

To feel lavish in tranquility
and peace in the mind
to feel the heart at rest
with much happiness to find

To be free from ambivalence
and endless uncertainty
to feel certain and guaranteed

Not dubious or confused
with dilemmas and problems
but find solutions with ingenuity
to feel worry-free without perplexity
to feel certain in everything

Not a single worry in the world
not a single care
A piece of feeling I'd love to share

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Why Do Bad Things Happen? by Waresa

"Why do bad things always happen to me?" "Why do I always have to suffer?" "Why do difficulties and calamities exist in this world?"

Do these questions sound familiar? Did they ever cross you mind?
Well as Muslims we should know why people suffer and go through hardships. There are many Islamic lectures and websites that explain the answers to these questions.
I decided to compile all the answers and put them into this article. :)

Difficulties and Sufferings
In this life, we will face many different kinds of problems and hardships.
And it's completely normal. We are supposed to go through some tough times here and then.
"If the world was free of problems, paradise would lose it's value.” - Mufti Menk. 
"So what if this life isn't perfect? It's not Jannah,"- Nouman Ali Khan

First we have to understand that as human beings, we are inherently limited. Humanity is a limited creation. So, human beings can never fully understand or completely comprehend 1) Allah (swt) Himself and 2) the rationale that Allah (swt) has for doing what He does.
Human beings are limited and Allah (swt) is Limitless.
We believe there are certain virtues  to trials, tribulations, and sufferings. But we also believe there are certain causes.

Causes of Hardships
1) It was from the Qadr of Allah. The difficulty was supposed to happen.
64:11 "No disaster strikes except by permission of Allah . And whoever believes in Allah - He will guide his heart. And Allah is Knowing of all things."
The difficulty you are going through was supposed to happen to you. It was already decreed. So we shouldn't say "if this happened," or "i should have done this instead" because whatever happened was already written down in our Qadr. This calamity or difficulty was "like an arrow that was shot and was supposed to hit you exactly when, where, how deep and how badly, it was already decided. It is perfect hit." -Nouman Ali Khan 

2) Difficulty hits you because of what you did:
Sufferings can be as a result of our actions. Our mistakes tend to bring on difficulties onto ourselves. When we make a mistake, the residual effect of that mistake is another mistake. You have to take responsibility for your actions.
For example, if you drive extremely fast and then get a speeding a ticket, that's your fault.
Or if you didn't study and then get a 50 on the final exam, it's because you didn't study.
We have to acknowledge the fact that we were the ones that messed up.
Our acts can also have affect on our Ummah and our community. We can be the source of societal difficulties as well.
**When things happen to you that are out of your control, they are from Allah. (i.e. flood, car hits you, diagnosed with disease). When things happen within our control, we have to take responsibility.

3) Our misdeeds and sins tend to bring on difficulties onto ourselves.
Allah (swt) will test the one who committed sins and acts of disobedience with calamity by way of recompense and immediate punishment (i.e., in this world). 
4:79 "What comes to you of good is from Allah , but what comes to you of evil, [O man], is from yourself. And We have sent you, [O Muhammad], to the people as a messenger, and sufficient is Allah as Witness."

Reasons for Suffering and Hardships
1) Allah (swt) is testing you. By going through this pain and suffering and not finding the relief, it may be that this is a test from Allah (swt).
2:155 And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient,
29:2 Do the people think that they will be left to say, "We believe" and they will not be tried?
2:214“Or think you that you will enter Paradise without such (trials) as came to those who passed away before you? They were afflicted with severe poverty and ailments and were so shaken that even the Messenger and those who believed along with him said, ‘When (will come) the Help of Allah?’ Yes! Certainly, the Help of Allah is near!Calamities and hardships test the strength of our Imaan (beliefs) and our patience.

2) Allah (swt) loves you. When Allah (swt) loves you, He does something to bring you closer to Him.
If Allah intends good for someone, then He afflicts him with trials. Source: Sahih Bukhari 5321, 
The prophet (saws) said, "When Allah loves someone, He will put him into difficulties," (Tarmidhee)

3) When Allah afflicts you with some kind of hardship, it's actually good for you. During times of difficulty, you tend to make more Du'a. By consistently making Dua to Allah, you're getting closer to Allah (swt). Your levels of sincerity become so high and you become a better Muslim.
 “The greatest reward comes with the greatest trial. When Allaah loves a people He tests them. Whoever accepts that wins His pleasure but whoever is discontent with that earns His wrath.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (2396) and Ibn Maajah (4031); classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi

What To Do During Difficulties
1) Say,  Inna Lillahi wa inna ilayhi Raji un إِنَّا للهِ وَإِنَّـا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعونَ‎
2:156 "Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: "Truly! To Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return."
When a calamity hits you, the first thing you should say is" Inna Lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un."
 Saying "We belong to Allah" reminds us that Allah owns us. How can we complain about anything because we're not the owner of anything; Allah owns us. We deserve nothing, we didn't earn anything. We take our eyes, our nose, our tongues for granted, but we didn't pay for it; it doesn't belong to us. It belongs to Allah.
Then we say, "We will return to Allah." This reminds us that our problems are not permanent. Whatever problem you're having right now isn't permanent; whether it's money problems, emotional struggles, health problems, family problems, it's temporary.
Because
"you and I aren't permanent, how can our problems be permanent? This problem is nothing, forget the problem, I will leave. Not only will this problem not be around, I wont be around. I will be returned back to Allah." -Nouman Ali Khan.

2) Have sabr (patience). When something bad happens, have patience. For a Muslim, the attitude should be entirely different. Maybe the goal of the entire trouble you are going through was so you could have sabr. The real goal was to learn to have sabr.

3) Stay positive. At least the tribulation was in this dunya and not your deen. that it could be worse than it is, that it's in your worldly matters and not in your deen.You got tribulation in this dunya, but not in your deen. For example, you lost your job, but at least you didn't miss your prayer; you lost your wealth, Alhamdullilah you didn't lose your Imaan.
The Prophet said:

“Whoever is mainly concerned about the Hereafter, Allah will make him feel independent of others and will make him focused and content, and his worldly affairs will fall into place. But whoever is mainly concerned with this world, Allah will make him feel in constant need of others and will make him distracted and unfocused, and he will get nothing of this world except what is decreed for him.” [Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2389; classed as Saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 6510].

Benefits of Sufferings
1) Expiation of sins- When you go through a difficulty and bear it with patience, inshAllah your sins will be cleared out.
The Prophet (saws) said, “How wonderful is the affair of the believer, for his affairs are all good, and this applies to no one but the believer. If something good happens to him, he is thankful for it and that is good for him. If something bad happens to him, he bears it with patience and that is good for him.” (Narrated by Muslim, 2999).

2) It makes your path in the next life easy. The difficulty in this life acts as a accelerator for someone's ease in the next life.
Muslim reports from 'Abdullaah ibn 'Amr (ra) that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said "The poor of the Muhajireen will enter Paradise forty years ahead of the rich". (Mishkaat al-Masaabeeh, 2/663, no. 5235)
Since poor people went through so much difficulty in this life, Allah will remove the difficulty from their path in the next life.

3) When we go through difficult times, we learn to devalue this dunya. This dunya is nothing compared to the Hereafter. Your Imaan is directly related to how convinced you are that this dunya is dust. When you view this dunya in a way that's not important, then all of a sudden, your hardships and trials are less damaging.

 4) You only appreciate light when you've been in the dark. You only appreciate ease when you've been in pain. When Allah gives you a trial, you begin to appreciate the absence of trial.

5)You worship Allah in times of good and bad. When we get too much comfort, we become apathetic. This dunya is not meant to achieve the ultimate comfort or pinnacle of comfort.

6) We will be introduced to the hills of difficulty so that the valleys of ease become much sweeter and so that we don't lose focus of our relationship with Allah (swt) when we're in the valley of ease.
Suffering enhances our joy.


Things are put into perspective. Putting things in perspective makes you worry about what really matters. When you don't put things in perspective, you can focus on the wrong thing.

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8 Misconceptions About Love - Saad Tasleem

Pillars of Imaan

To believe in:
1) Allah (in His Existence, His Oneness in His Attributes, His deserving to be worshipped and supplicated and His right to legislate.)
2) The Angels
3)The Books (The Torah, Gospel, Psalms, and Qur'an)
   The belief in The Books Comprises of 4 matters:
1. To believe that the descent of the Books is truly from Allah (swt)
2) To believe in the Books whose names we know, each according to its name, like Al-Qur’aan which was sent down unto Muhammad (N), At-Tawraat which was revealed to Moosaa (O), the Injeel which was brought down to ‘Eesaa (O), and Az-Zaboor which was given to Daawood (O). As to those Books which we don’t know their names, we believe in them on the whole. 
3) To attest to their authentic information like the news told in the Qur’aan and (or) in the old Scriptures as long as they are not altered or changed. 
4)Acting upon its un-abrogated statutes, accepting and submitting to them whether we realize the wisdom behind them or we don’t. All of the old Scriptures are abrogated by the Great Qur’aan. 4)The Messengers
      The belief in the Messengers Comprises 4 Matters

1. to believe that their Message is a true one from Allah
2. to believe in those of them whose names we know. As regard to those of them whose names we don't know, we believe in them on the whole (as true Messengers from Allah (swt)
3. to believe in what is authentically reported from their news.
4. To act upon the Sharee'ah of the Messenger who is sent to us amongst them, and he is Muhammad (saws), the last o the Messengers (and Prophets) who is sent to mankind.

5) The Last Day (the day of resurrection for the reckoning of the people according to their deeds and their appropriate compensation (award or punishment).
6)Qadr (Divine Preordainment)
Belief in the Qadr comprises of 4 matters:  

First: The Belief that Allah (G) knew everything on the whole and in detail which took place in the past and is taking or will take place in the future and forever, whether it is related to His Actions or the actions of His Ibaad (creatures). 

 
Second: The Belief that Allah (G) wrote (everything pertaining to His Knowledge) in Al-Lauhul Mahfoudh.^[1]  Regarding these two aspects (knowledge and writing


Third: The Belief that all created things do not come to exist except by the Will of Allah (G) making no difference whether it pertains to His Action or to that of the created beings
Fourth: The Belief that all beings are created by Allah including Thawaatiha (their selves), their qualities and their motion.

Eid is Here!

Eid is Here, by Waresa

Lightings on your window,

posters on your wall

streamers down the stairs

decorations, nice and tall.

Henna tattoos on your nails

all over your hands.

You buy dresses and clothes

that are expensive and grand.

Baking sweets,

brownies and cake.

Cooking delicious meals

that are easy to make.

Eid is here,

our time to laugh and cheer.

Ramadan Family Activities

For this activity you will need a pack of balloons, post-its (or any piece of paper), and a marker. On each post-it write an activity or something the family will do together. Then fold up the post it, put it inside the balloon. Make 30 of these and put one inside each balloon. Then, after Iftar, every night someone from the family gets to pick a balloon and pop it. For example, one day the little brother gets to pop one ballon, the next day the father gets to pop another balloon.

 If someone pops a ballon and the post-it says, "Share a hadeeth," everyone in the family must share one Hadeeth.

here are some suggestions and ideas (some activities you can write on the post-it):
1) Share a Hadeeth
2)Recite 1 Surah from the 30th Juz.
3) Everyone will tell each other a story.
4) Eat ice-cream together as a family.
5)Play a game together.
6) Watch a lecture together.

These are just a few activities you can do with your family. You can come up with many more. These activities are meant to help you and your family get closer and build a stronger bond.
Hope you enjoy :)

Iftar Time, by Waresa

Counting the hours, minutes, and seconds
feeling your stomach rumble
waiting for iftar time
"I'm hungry" you mumble

biryani, samosas, chicken and rice, salad, noodles, pasta, 
preparing many varieties of meals
setting the table and making plates,
everything looks ideal 

everyone helps prepare and get ready for iftar time
family and friends gather together for this special feast,
they all break fast together
and eat during Iftar time, happily. 

Ramadan, by Waresa

Ramadan
The time of the year
The month has arrived
Filled with blessings and mercy
Which can change our lives

In this month, Ramadan
Your reward increases when you pray
Make your intention to fast everyday
The devils are chained
So it's easy to do
What Allah commands and
What's good for you

Read the Qur'an
For it is the guide for mankind
Which was revealed
At this month, at this time

Ramadan is the month in which we fast
change for the better, and erase the past.
 
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Drinking? Smoking? That Stuff Ain't Fun

Smoking everyday??
Drinking all night??
tell me how you think this is alright

Always at the club?
Every single day?
please tell me how you think this is okay

Making it a habit?
Don't care what others say?
well stop justifying yourself, it's NOT okay

Committing all these evil acts
it's taking you away from the straight path

You need to realize this is extremely wrong
it's not making you strong, its just gonna make you suffer really long

Just stop being dumb
drinking and smoking? 
that stuff is not fun

You need to stop
before you go over the top

You need some help
if you cant put this to an end
find better people
get better friends!

Even if you enjoy it, it ain't gonna last
you will definitely regret it
you'll have to pay for the past

You are hurting yourself, no one else
if you think it makes you look cool
then stop being fooled!

And deep inside you know it's wrong, so don't pretend
or else you will regret and suffer till the very end ~

In the Qur'an it says:


"O you who have believed, indeed, intoxicants, gambling, [sacrificing on] stone alters [to other than Allah ], and divining arrows are but defilement from the work of Satan, so avoid

it that you may be successful." (5:90)

"Shaitan (Satan) wants only to excite enmity and hatred between you with intoxicants (alcoholic drinks) and gambling, and hinder you from the remembrance of Allah and from As-Salat (the prayer). So, will you not then abstain?" (5:91)

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The Queen in Every House, by Waresa

Giving up her life to help us succeed.
Going out of her way to provide us with what we need.

Working hard all day long
Not complaining and still staying strong.

Cooking varieties of meals and food
yet we still have the nerve to be rude

cleaning the house, sweeping the floor
vacuuming, wiping, mopping, dusting, and so much more.

supporting us in life
and giving advice
helping us when the world falls apart
aiding us to a fresh start


Giving love and care
filling us with happiness and delight
she brings comfort and joy
every single night

This queen is our mother 
she is loved and appreciated with all our hearts
without her support, the family's kingdom would fall apart

 

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Princess, Waresa

Painted with classy clothes
polished, glimmering in the light
Some would envy and loathe
but she would stand upright

Every day with dazzling scarves
Beautiful pins and accessories
Golden chains, jewels, and rings
ignoring her endless miseries.

Walking with dignity
standing straight with pride
with nothing to hide.

Zina, Sanzida Love

You are nothing but a test.
You come in a beautiful way.
Leave me restless.
Not in any decent way.
Oh you are a test!

To test my piety in the eyes
of my creator.
To see for how long,
How long I will refrain
or will i give in
and take all the
sinful pleasures .

You are nothing but a test.
Oh you leave me restless
with all the wrong moves
in all the wrong ways.
Just like the rest
of the duniya
boy you are a test.

I better watch myself and my heart
before i slip for you
and get on that wrong track
that track that takes you away from your chances
The chances of getting in jannah
Leaves you restless in duniya
as you ponder and wonder over the
rules and regulations.

You are the ultimate doom to my room
filled with peace.
I hope to suffer in other ways
but man one thing i don't hope for
is for me to die in your arms
or in any other way that
got you all involved with me
in all them wrong ways.
boy you are nothing but a test
and i shall refrain till my last breath!

~Zina~
-SLove

High School Days, by Waresa

6:15 A.M.
Wake up feeling exhausted
and extremely tired
to go to school
with no desire

Getting dressed on time
Trying to look fine
But inside your head is aching
Your body is breaking

Cuz you didn't get sleep
You just wanna weep
Wishing to go to bed
School is such a dread.

So you finally make it to school
You swipe your ID card
As you make your way up the stairs
you fall down real hard.

 You pick yourself up
and hurry to class


But then you realize
you forgot to study for a test
You're to tired to worry and take stress
so you wing it and do your best.

And then lunch time comes.
You're really hungry and you're dying to eat
You stand on the lunch line
 and see they're serving haram meat

You ask the lunch lady if they have pizza
But she says, "no" and gives you a peanut butter sandwich

You go back to your table with your friends
and open the sandwich when you realize, there's only a pinch of jelly
and the sandwich starts to get smelly

So you throw out your tray
And you have to starve for the rest of the day.

And then after school you realize,
you have homework for every class
and you have to study for 4 different tests.

The cycle goes on until the school year ends
and all the stress leaves after the regents.

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3 Popular Quotes We Don't Pay Much Attention To

1) "Choose Your Friends Wisely"- Yes, we hear it all the time. But it's true. If we could only choose the right people to hang out with, we wouldn't have to deal with problems such as peer pressure, friendship break ups, and drama. Some people just like creating drama and others just use you. These people are not true friends. Before we consider someone as a best, or a close friend, we have to learn their personality. Sometimes you can easily figure out if you want a person to be your best friend. But that's not always the case. Situations come up in which your "best friend" could surprise you.
Okay for example, lets say you and your friend have known each other for a few months. And you guys love hanging out with each other. It's like the perfect friendship. But then your friend finds someone else and wants to hang out with that person. Slowly, she starts to avoid you sometimes. She doesn't talk to you when she's with her other friend. But then when other friend is gone, she comes back to you. Yup, she was using you. But you're so upset because you guys were so close and she was like a picture perfect friend. You guys had so many years ahead of you. And you could have spent it together. But it's over and you have to find someone else. Just make sure, you choose your friend even more wisely. And don't consider them your best friend right away. It takes more than just a few months.
2) "Think Before You Speak"- So you're chilling with your friend and you guys are having a conversation about some people and you say something extremely bad about someone, something like "she's so annoying! She laughs too much". Your friends laugh at what you say and you go on because you enjoy the attention and you don't think about the consequences. The person you called "annoying" has helped you in the past. But, of course, you forgot about the good traits about that person. SO a couple of months pass by and the girl you called annoying stops talking to you. She doesnt even look at you and gives you the meanest looks when you pass by her. You sit next to her and you say "hi" to her but she gives you a disgusted look. And then you remember what you said about her, only its too late. Somehow, she found out what you said. We live in a small world and things spread extremely fast. This was just an example but things like this happen. You say things about someone which causes problems.
3)"Dont Give Up!"- Yes we hear this all the time. But it's true. Never say never. Just keep trying and never give up. One time there was an essay contest. It was for the whole New York City and it was from grades 5-8. I was in 5th grade at that time. So i wrote the essay and i was like "What's the point?"But i kept on writing and i tried to write a really good essay. And guess what?? I WON! Out of the whole New York City. The video is on youTube btw.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MF-q8OIeVmE

Dont Worry Too Much

Many people worry and constantly try to prevent bad things from happening to them. their worries often take over their peace and happiness. But as believers we should not worry. We should know that if anything goes wrong, it might be a test for us.
“The greatest reward comes with the greatest trial. When Allaah loves a people He tests them. Whoever accepts that wins His pleasure but whoever is discontent with that earns His wrath.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (2396) and Ibn Maajah (4031); classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. 

We should also remember that our problems in this life are not permanent because we are not permanent. This world is not forever. 

Also, if anything bad happens to a believer he should be positive.

The Prophet (saws) said, “How wonderful is the affair of the believer, for his affairs are all good, and this applies to no one but the believer. If something good happens to him, he is thankful for it and that is good for him. If something bad happens to him, he bears it with patience and that is good for him.” (Narrated by Muslim, 2999).  

Make Dua, by Waresa

For comfort and cure
relief and peace
help, satisfaction, and happiness
make du'a

For removal of sins
sadness and despair
all you have to do is make du'a

For wishes to be granted
blessings to be showered on you
make du'a

For protection, health, wealth, and safety
and to be provided,
make du'a.

For solutions to problems,
      cures to pains and struggles,
        relief from stress,
       make du'a.

Du'a is truly a beautiful blessing
it's a way to communicate with Allah                          
at any time of the day or night.

Du'a is the key to strong faith
happiness and a better fate.

It's a form of worship
it's empowering and fulfilling
it gives hopes to hardships
cures to concerns
patience with problems
so don't forget to make du'a.


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Hold on to Your Candle

Picture this,

You are in the dark jungle and the only thing you are given is a candle. You must make your way across the jungle and ignore the other things like animals, bugs, noises, etc. After the jungle there is a place filled with light and peace. So to pass the jungle you need this candle. It's your only light and it will help you see in the dark jungle. You are walking with the candle in your hand and then it gets windy. You quickly cover the candle and make sure it doesn't blow away with the wind. Then you keep walking, and after a while it starts raining. You immediately cover the candle and make sure it is still lit. You will do anything to keep the candle safe in order to pass the jungle and enter a place filled with light. You would not get distracted by other things. If you saw a bunch of fireflies, you wouldn't just let go of the candle and follow the fireflies. 

Now think about reality. The candle is like our faith in Allah. The jungle is this world. The distractions are waswaas (evil thoughts from Shaytan), the fireflies are the worldly desires and attractions. The place of peace is like Paradise. You would not give your candle away,  because it's your only way to pass the jungle; likewise, you would try to hold on to your Imaan (faith in Allah) because it's your only way to Paradise (Jannah).

-Tajreen